Saturday, December 22, 2012

Signs of a developed nation?

Why does it hurt so much when you think about India's current state? There are other nations which are in a much worse state. It is because when you read about how great a nation India was, you realize how much India has slipped. We were the nation which was the richest! Both in terms of monetory and cultural wealth. Now our women are raped, our downtrodden are stamped further and the diparity keeps growing. When you walk the roads, you can bear the stench of garbage, you can bear the stench of the sewers but one thing you cannot bear is the stench of selfishness. When you park a car in front of somebody else's gate, when you throw the garbage on the road, when you jump a traffic signal and block the whole traffic; have you ever thought how selfish it is? How difficult it could be for an old man walking to maneuver around the grabge thrown on the road, how difficult it is for a woman who will now reach office late because you blocked traffic? Somebody once did tell that only the mantra is 'Survival of the fittest', but we can only survive and develop as a whole, as one whole society.

I always wonder what makes a nation "developed". Do the people look more beautiful? Do the roads look cleaner? Do the cars look shinier? I do not know, but I seem to have found an answer in a child's smile. I was walking to office the other day in Sydney and I noticed a group of mentally challenged children walking. It was an amazing in itself that these special children were going to school on their own, but what happened next is what is worth writing about. There were a group of construction workers working at a site in the same raod, and they were all busy in their work. As soon as they saw these kids, they shouted "Hey! Good Morning", and stopped the traffic for them to cross. The faces of those kids suddenly had these huge smiles and in those smiles you could really see what a little "care" means to the people who really need our love and affection. Children are too innocent to fake emotions and in those smiles one could understand how the needy and the weak in our country should be treated.

The downtrodden sections of the society don't need more reservations, they dont need more leaders and more schemes; instead, they need some love, affection and genuine care. Maybe this is the what defines a Nation's development : maturity. Not money, not roads, not cars; but instead how our weakest are treated. That in itself shows how much a nation has developed, and we know India has long way to go. But we will get there, I know it.

Friday, December 21, 2012

yella arama?

It is said that no matter what, no matter where you are, no matter who you are with; you will always be a Kannadiga at heart. As I arrived at Melbourne, I learnt that the people I was about to meet were from Bangalore. Believe me, I did not know them before coming here. But there is some part inside you which tells you that you are connected.

I met them and I said "yen, ella arama?". My heart leaped in joy. I love speaking in english, no qualms about it. But there is some joy unexplained which erupts from within you when you are speaking kannada with somebody in person after nearly 2 months. I cannot exaplain how it feels when you say "yen maga, thindi yelli?" in the middle of thousand foreigners in a foreign land. Home just comes that much closer. Memories of Bangalore, memories of idli vada and everything else come flooding back, everything that makes my home Bangalore beautiful.

At the same time as I sat down to write about it, the only thing I know, I realized how important it is to retain the character your homeland bestowed upon you. No matter which country you are in, no matter which luxury car you are driven in; you will always be the little boy or girl from a city in India and inside you, that will always be paradise.

I have been in this beautiful country of Australia for almost 2 months, and I love it here. But I miss the traffic, I miss the people drinking coffee on the street side off a steel tumbler, I miss eating Idli standing by the footpath; well, I miss my city.

No matter what, my heart speaks Kannada; even in Australia.

Tuesday, December 4, 2012

Casino and the lessons learnt

He looked at the girl and with an elegant stroke revealed his set of cards. He just won a million dollars and the girl was his. Isn't this the story of a typical Casino story?

Well, I would have been happy if that is the case. The Star casino in Sydney is a beautiful place with a lot of attractions. One can bet from as low as $1 to $50,000 in a single bet. Wanting to see how a casino feels, we went to The Star. As with every casino, it had its share of glamour. Men with slick suits, women hanging off their arms and money to spend. Well, these were only on the high-rollers' side. One can try his hand at any of the games such as roulette, poker and so on. People who want the authenticate casino feel can sit at the tables and play with a dealer with the chips, or one can sit at their own personal machines and play these games virtually. We saw people betting $1-5 and it was fun. As we explored, we happened to reach the high rollers' section. I had seen in movies and was not sure if it was real, but here I saw real betting. Each chip was worth $100 and people were betting 10-15 chips at one go. There was one time where there was atleast $10000 on the table at the same time. Some people were exasperated at losing and threw their credit cards at the dealer to charge more. It is indeed funny, one of those chips could have given a child's education for an entire year. Well, now is not the time for morals!



Anyway, apart from all these fabulous things at a casino; the casino also teaches you a few things you can use in life. It teaches you not to get greedy, it teaches you to be satisfied with what you have and it also shows you how easy it is to lose money. I started with $10 and made $32. I was ecstatic and I immediately cashed out. But something inside me told "you made $22 profit from $10, think how much more you can make". And before I knew it, I lost the whole $32. I said, "Ok, let me put in $20 and recover my old money back". I went to $52.50, and I could have cashed out. No, I contniued. I lost the enitre amount. Before I knew it, I had lost $50. It does make you think about human nature, isn't it? We are never satisfied with what we have. Maybe this has what has made us such a superior species, but it is good to know what is your need and differenciate that from your greed. The casino showed me how easy it is to make money and also lose money. Maybe I am not a gambler, but I have learnt my lesson. The casino is not all about money and glamour, it can teach you lessons if you are ready to learn.